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Then she sat me down in front of my computer and told me I was going to start dating again. Then she explained that I could find a guy without even having to leave my house and that it didn’t have to be so serious. In fact, she was right, I needed to find the rebound.I just stared into the brightness of the computer light, mostly confused until what she said sunk in. The one guy who was so incredibly hot it would help me get my groove back, remind me I still had it, get me out of my rut of despair and heartache. He ended up being this quite attractive, very tall man with an unfortunate moustache and an even more unfortunate need to baby-talk during sex.For instance, couples sometimes mistakenly believe that “love” will help them deal with any issue that comes up, and that if the other person truly loved you, they would just do as you ask.

Of course, it wasn’t entirely my idea to leave, my friend led a helping hand dragging me up the stairs.

Relationships — even the best relationships in the world — require constant attention, nurturing, and work.

If you can understand and accept the need for constant attention and work in your relationship, you’re started in the right direction.1.

Unformatted text preview: *Primary-physically based,universally experienced Secondary-environ based-health habits& disease,individually xperienced 5 th stage Postformal thought: *Realistic thinking-idealism increases *Reflective thin king-question facts,draw inferences,make connections *Relativistic thinking-decrease in absolute approaches Characte ristics of emerging adulthood: no longer teen but only partly adult,age range18-25,identity exploration(love&work),in stability(change in residential status,love,work,education, self focused(limited in oblication to others), Feeling in betwe en(not adult not adoles), Possibilities(future yet to be discovered, optimism) Transition from adoles to adult in US: legal age,graduation,full time job, econommic&social independence,marriage Predictors of phys health/mortality: healthy diet&exercise,avoid sub use(alcohol,smoking),regular sleep, Poor healthy choices from adoles to adulthood : poor diet&obesity,sub use,lack of access to health care(general&repro) 4types of changes in phys functioning: reg exercise,sleep(deprivation linked to cog deficits),diet&nutrition(obesity),sub abuse(18-25 more likely to smoke than any other age group) Short Term Mating: Dating: developmental psych term,short term relationship where couples not thinking about marriage,may/not sex asp Short Term Mating: ev psych term,short term mating where couple not planning to stay together for child bearing,sex Casual dating: considered2bemaladptive, signifies-insecure relationship2parents,interpersonal distrust,soc avoidance, emo instability,low self worth in women Multiple Origins View: cas dating adaptve,pref due to-insecure relationship w/ parents=clingy rela styles,heritable traits,situational factors(adoles&early adult) Sex Strat Theory: in EEAbothmen&wo men engage in STM<M, STM diff adapt than LTM, EEA men's fitness depend on STM women on LTM both w/ diff adapt Men Benefit: #ofkids Costs: STDs,reputation,violence,-chance of kid survival,retalatory affairs,small cost on ev fitness Ev probs for men: find lots of partners(desire many women,relax stand in STM,less time b4intercourse),find sexually accessible women,identify fertility(getting preg now),avoid commitment PSIO evidence: larger testicles,sperm &penis counter partner's affairs Psych evid: want lots of partners,avoid committ,elapsed time b4 engaging intercourse, closing time phenomena,male vs female sex fantasies Behav evid: affairs,prostitution Evid women STM: men's desire 4 sex variety,orgasm,affairs Women's benefits: resources,good genes,mate switching&manipulation Evid: genes&resou rces-phys attract,gifts,spendslotsof$in relation,xtravagant lifestyle,cheap men not in STM Mate switching-women not happy with current partners No support for stat enhance&mate manipulation Long Term Dating: malecost: willing to invest,protection,good parent,compatible,healthy womencost: fertility,beauty,symetry Sex Strat The ory:* men young=STM(mate VALhigh)old=LTM*women young=LTM(mate Valhigh)l8er STM affairs in LTM parent I nvest theory: female invest inoffspring=more selective in mating,men investless=higher comp in investing sex...

Conventional wisdom holds that married people live longer and are healthier than singles. Studies show that married people, particularly men, are less likely to die early and are less likely to die from heart disease or stroke. And what about people who are in committed relationships but haven't said "I do"? Experts weigh in on long-term love and your well-being. Christopher Fagundes, Ph D, psychologist and researcher at The Ohio State University, says there is less risk-taking and substance abuse when couples marry -- even less than if they just move in together. "If you’re married, ideally that’s your closest relationship," says Janice Kiecolt-Glaser, Ph D, S.